Tuesday Post: Present self vs Future Self (posted on Wednesday)

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Happy Tuesday!

Every Tuesday I'd like to offer strategies for the week ahead and a thought to fuel your action.

We trick ourselves into believing that our future selves will be better equipped to tackle what we don’t want to do today.

It’s comforting to think that tomorrow will bring more motivation, more time, or more clarity. But this belief is as absurd as thinking that trash will magically make its way to the trashcan if we give it time.

It’s the final hour of my workday.

I’ve been productive, clearing emails and handling smaller tasks.

But there’s that one big task still sitting on my to-do list. The one I keep postponing because it feels too daunting.

“Tomorrow,” I tell myself, “I’ll have more time and focus.” Tomorrow comes, and the same task lingers. The cycle repeats. The task doesn’t change—but neither do I.

This is the trap. We push responsibilities to our future selves, believing they’ll be better equipped to handle them. But our future self isn’t a superhero. They’re just us—slightly older and just as reluctant. The issue lies in how we perceive time and identity.

Psychologically, we see our future selves as strangers. If we truly considered them partners, we wouldn’t burden them with tasks we dread today. It’s inconsiderate, like dumping debt on someone else’s credit card. Yet, we rationalize it as self-compassion.

Compounding this is our tendency to view the future through the lens of today. We assume life will move linearly and that the information we have now will hold true tomorrow. But life isn’t linear. It’s unpredictable.

Telling a 30-year-old to save for retirement at 65 is like telling a 3-year-old to wait five minutes for dessert. The time horizon is incomprehensible.

The things we procrastinate on often involve personal growth. We think, “I’ll have more time to focus on this later.” But later arrives, and we’re no more prepared. It’s like wanting a summer body when June rolls around. By then, it’s too late to start. The work needed to be done in January.

Our belief in a better-equipped future self is comforting but false. Who we are today is largely who we’ll be tomorrow. Like the rings of a tree, we add layers over time, but the core remains the same.

Procrastination isn’t just a habit; it’s a mindset. The answer lies in redefining our relationship with our future selves. Instead of seeing them as someone entirely different, we must view them as a continuation of who we are today.

Imagine your future self as a blurry photograph.

Unless you focus the lens intentionally, they remain distant and easy to ignore. By bringing them into focus, we can act more intentionally, making decisions that set them up for success.

The reality is simple: Life doesn’t slow down. If anything, it accelerates. The best gift we can give our future selves is the freedom to tackle tomorrow’s challenges—by addressing today’s.

The best is ahead!

-Matt