Wednesday Post: Emyth

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Happy Wednesday!

Each week, I’ll share one idea worth thinking about and one strategy worth trying—designed to help you lead, grow, and stay ahead in a constantly evolving industry.

The Ritz-Carlton employs nearly 18,000 people. Each can spend up to $2,000 to solve a guest problem—no manager approval is required.

How does a company give that much freedom to that many people without chaos?

The answer reveals something counterintuitive about human connection: the most personal experiences come from the most systematic approaches.

I discovered this truth standing at a white-clothed table at an industry conference, across from a firm owner whose hands were literally trembling as she spoke. She'd just learned about scheduling automation, and her voice carried the weight of someone watching their world crumble.

"Our clients love that Sarah calls them personally to schedule," she insisted, gripping her wine glass tighter.

"That's our white-glove service. Technology will make us feel like... like McDonald's."

In that moment, I realized we were witnessing two different movies. She saw systems as soul-crushing uniformity, while I saw them as soul-liberating structure. She missed the point: McDonald's isn't soulless because it has systems—it's soulless because its systems prioritize efficiency over humanity. The Ritz-Carlton has even more detailed systems yet creates moments that guests remember for decades.

The difference lies in what you systematize. The backbone versus the flesh. McDonald's systematizes the flesh—the human interactions, the personality, the spontaneity. The Ritz-Carlton systematizes the backbone—the timing, the handoffs, the reliability—so its people can be more human, not less.

Think about your favorite local café. You return not because their coffee is perfect but because you never have to think. The same barista recognizes you, the same quality every time, the same excellent result. The system creates the safety that allows the barista to ask about your weekend, remember your dog's name, and surprise you with a free pastry.

That trembling firm owner never asked her clients what they actually wanted. She assumed they valued the interruption of a scheduling call over the convenience of choosing their own time. She never considered what Sarah could do with those freed hours—maybe call clients to discuss their dreams instead of calendars.

Systems don't eliminate personality; they amplify it. Every jazz musician knows the same chord progressions and the same timing structures. That shared foundation is precisely what allows each musician to bring their unique voice and improvisation. The structure enables the soul.

The businesses that feel most personal—from the Ritz-Carlton to your neighborhood barbershop—all share this understanding: standardize what creates reliability, personalize what creates connection. When you remove the cognitive load of wondering "what happens next?" from your client's experience, you create space for them to focus on what matters: the relationship, the insights, and the transformation you're creating together.

The most human thing you can do is be reliably yourself. The only way to reliably yourself with dozens or hundreds of clients is to build systems that handle the routine, freeing you to handle the remarkable.

What would you create if you had more time to be human?

The best is ahead!

-Matt